In dating, why does it always feel difficult to figure out what to say or text?
In dating, why does it always feel difficult to figure out what to say or text? We tend to get shoved in our heads before sending that first text message. Why? We try too hard to be witty or clever. Wit is wonderful, but that opening text message doesn't have to be brilliant. You don't need to be Shakespeare. You just need to be playful and clear. Clarity is huge. It's important to let the other person know you're interested. Clever is overrated, and clarity is underrated. Lower the bar for how funny, witty, or perfect your opener has to be. (more…)